Wheels of Wonder and Crutches of Courage: Walking Wiser, Rolling Resilient Disability Pride Month

“Disability is not a brave struggle or courage in the face of adversity. Disability is an art. It’s an ingenious way to live.” – Neil Marcus

When Aanya first rolled into her college classroom, the silence was deafening. Eyes darted away. The ramp at the entrance was steep and shaky but her will wasn’t. A few months later, her peers stopped seeing the wheelchair and started seeing her ideas, her leadership, her laughter. Stories like hers are not rare, they’re just rarely told. 

In a world where motion is often mistaken for meaning, the sight of someone rolling instead of walking or leaning into the weight of a crutch is sometimes seen as a limitation. But step closer and you'll find not a story of pity but of power. A power that rewrites norms, reclaims space and reimagines freedom.

Disability Pride Month is not about inspiration. It is about integration of voice, choice, and dignity. It invites us not to feel “for” but to feel with. It’s not about being "despite" something but being entirely and unapologetically someone.

On pavements that aren’t always even and in systems not always kind, there are wheels that roll with wonder. Each turn carries the legacy of resilience, activism and everyday acts of defiance. There are crutches not just bearing weight but balancing dreams. With every lift and drop, they echo determination and agency. 

The language we use often cages more than it frees. “Confined to a wheelchair”as though it is a prison. But wheels don’t confine, they liberate. Crutches don’t represent fragility but fortitude. These are not just aids, they are extensions of the spirit. They are poetry in motion if only we learn to read beyond the surface.

Disability, from a psychological perspective, is more than a physical condition or a sensory limitation; it translates into identity and mental health. The friction of societal expectations and personal restrictions has the potential to disempower and harm a person’s self-worth. However, many people still develop a positive self-concept through adaptive coping, community and purposeful existence. Post-traumatic growth is one way to articulate the positive emotional and social effects of trauma for some people and we can see how trauma fosters strength, empathy and renewed purpose in life.

Disability Pride encourages us to consider new ways of thinking in an environment where speed, perfection and conformity are rewarded. It expands our perspective to look beyond ability or disability, i.e., humanity. It is about unlearning pity and relearning perspective. About seeing access not as accommodation, but as a right. It’s the simple radical idea that everyone deserves to belong as they are, not after being reshaped to fit.

And yet, visibility does not always mean inclusion. Disability pride is not a ribbon or hashtag. It is lived every single day in having to navigate through a world that was not always created for them. A world that is being slowly dismantled and transformed with every wheel.

Let it be a shift from admiration to action. There’s a prompt need to shift thinking about disability as an individual tragedy to disability as a political and social identity that is rooted in advocating for representation and equity. Each step, each turn of the wheel, is a revolution. It's a tragedy when society still feels compelled to ask if disabled people have the right to exist. Progress will occur when the society would recognize  inclusion as justice and not charity. 

Aanya now mentors other students with disabilities. The ramp still needs fixing but she’s helping fix something far more important: the culture. 

“My disability has opened my eyes to see the world not as it is, but as it could be.” – Robert M. Hensel

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