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The Medicinal Oil Habit: Why Rubbing Away Stress Can Become a Mental Crutch

For many people, the smell of medicinal oil is tied to relief. A headache begins, stress tightens the temples, exhaustion settles into the body, and instinctively the small bottle comes out. A few drops on the forehead or neck, a gentle massage, and there is a sense of calm. This habit is deeply rooted in everyday life across India and many other cultures. It is passed down from parents to children, from elders to the next generation. Yet behind this familiar ritual lies an important psychological question. When does relief become reliance, and when does comfort quietly turn into a mental crutch. Medicinal oils are often used for physical reasons like headaches, muscle pain, sinus pressure, or fatigue. However, many users report that the relief feels immediate even when the physical cause is unclear. Psychology explains this through the placebo effect. The mind strongly influences how the body experiences pain. When the brain expects relief, it often produces it. The scent, the cooling...

In Toy Story(1995), Andy’s attachment to his cowboy toy Woody shows just how powerful it can be to possess an object that you love. Woody is not just a plain toy; he is a companion, a source of comfort, and a part of Andy’s world. Now, think about your own life. Are there things you find hard to give up? Why do some objects feel so important while others do not? This is the psychology of possession and how objects can become a part of who we are. Philosophers have long inquired about the concept of possession of an object, particularly the idea of “objects of desire.” F.H. Bradley suggested that desire reveals not just interest in an object but a vision of the self that the object represents. Similarly, Hegel argued that possession becomes meaningful only when it is recognized by others, linking objects to social acknowledgement and selfhood. Objects hold memories and help us define ourselves. A toy, a piece of clothing, or a photograph is often more than what it seems. It c...

The Quiet Hours and the Rise of Overthinking As the day comes to an end and external demands gradually fade, many individuals find their thoughts becoming louder rather than calmer. Nighttime often creates the ideal psychological environment for rumination, where unresolved concerns, regrets, and worries surface with greater intensity. During daylight hours, cognitive resources are actively engaged in tasks, social interactions, and problem solving, which helps regulate intrusive thoughts. At night, the absence of distractions allows the mind to turn inward, increasing self focused attention. This inward shift, combined with fatigue, makes it harder to redirect thoughts or apply rational coping strategies. As a result, minor concerns can escalate into persistent mental loops, contributing to emotional distress and difficulty falling asleep. Cognitive Control and Its Vulnerability at Night Cognitive control refers to the brain’s ability to regulate attention, inhibit unwanted thoug...

Knowing the Nervous System, Productivity Patterns, and Child Survival Patterns Today, through this blog, let us understand what and why we feel restless while resting. Is it related to conditioning or childhood behavior patterns? How do these impacts influence us? Have you ever felt totally exhausted but couldn’t actually relax? Perhaps your mind races, or you tend to keep moving even while trying to take time off. Or worse, you feel guilty for not being productive and believe you should be doing something instead. If you answered “yes” to any of these conditions, then you’re far from being the only one. The real explanation is much deeper than just being busy; there’s science behind it. Nervous System and the Sense of Safety Everyone's body is equipped to protect itself from danger. The Nervous System acts as an internal alarm system (the “reptilian complex”) that helps us recognize when we believe we are in danger. When we perceive that we are safe, our Nervous System allows us t...

In recent years, China introduced strict regulations that prevent individuals without verified credentials from giving public advice online about sensitive fields such as finance, medicine, and health. At a surface level, these rules appear to be about controlling misinformation. At a deeper psychological level, they reveal how modern societies struggle with trust, authority, fear, and the mental consequences of unregulated information in digital spaces. In an era where anyone with a phone can sound like an expert, these regulations highlight the emotional and cognitive costs of unchecked advice. The digital age has dramatically blurred the line between expertise and opinion. Social media platforms reward confidence, clarity, and emotional appeal rather than accuracy. A person who speaks persuasively about investment strategies or medical cures can attract millions of followers regardless of their actual knowledge. For audiences, especially during times of uncertainty, such voices feel...

“Science is a way to ask questions and understand the world with curiosity and care,” This is a phrase that captures the essence of C. V. Raman, whose work on light scattering led to the discovery of the Raman Effect and earned him the Nobel Prize in Physics in 1930. Every year on 28 February, India observes National Science Day to celebrate his contribution to Physics and to celebrate science not just as a subject but as a way of thinking, exploring, and staying curious about the world. It is not just a day to remember a discovery in physics but also a day to reflect on how the mind works, how questions are asked, and how humans make sense of what they see, which brings us to a fascinating question: What is scientific thinking, and how does psychology, in particular, the study of the mind, explore it? Scientific thinking is beyond just performing experiments or writing results in a research log; it is a way of approaching the world with questions about “why” things happen and “ho...

Even though the world is moving forward at an unbelievable speed, the Indian classroom often remains stuck in the same old silence. It is 2025, yet many students still feel uncomfortable or embarrassed when teachers mention topics related to sex, consent, or bodily awareness. The moment these subjects come up, the room goes still, eyes drop to the floor, and an invisible wall rises between teachers and students. The same happens when politics is brought into discussions. Many schools treat it as a dangerous zone rather than a subject meant to build informed citizens. This silence is not accidental. It is the result of cultural hesitation, generational beliefs, and the fear of addressing topics that society itself is not ready to handle openly. To understand why this discomfort exists, we need to begin with the home. Many parents avoid speaking about sex or relationships because they grew up believing that silence equals protection. They fear that talking about these topics will en...

February is the shortest month of the year, with just 28 days and sometimes 29. It often feels quick and “incomplete”. But its short length is not a plain coincidence or calculation mistake. February’s extremely short duration comes from ancient calendars, rituals, and the ways people first estimated time using the sky. To understand the basis of this, we have to go back to the moon. A moon cycle is the time it takes for the moon to change from a new moon to a full moon and back to a new moon again. This takes about 29 and a half days. Since a cycle repeats itself, it wasn't long before people noticed and mapped the patterns shown during the cycle, creating a calendar. A calendar based on the moon is called a lunar calendar. In a lunar calendar, each month begins with a new moon and follows the moon’s phases. Twelve lunar months make up a year in this system. Many early societies used these lunar calendars because the moon was easy to observe, before and after the sun would come. I...

In the remote village of Longwa in Nagaland stands one of the most extraordinary homes in the world, the house of the Angh, the traditional king. Unlike any other residence, this majestic wooden structure sits directly on the international border that separates India and Myanmar. The line isn’t symbolic; it literally runs through the middle of his home, dividing rooms and spaces between two sovereign nations. Villagers often say, “We cook in Burma and eat in India,” a simple sentence that captures the fluid coexistence of two identities, two cultures, and two ways of life within a single household. This rare reality offers a powerful metaphor for the way emotional borders and internal landscapes work within us. The Angh’s house is built in traditional Konyak Naga style, massive, carved beams, wooden pillars etched with ancestral patterns, and a roof that feels both protective and commanding. From its hilltop view, the structure overlooks vast stretches of both India and Myanmar, remi...

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From Tehran to Tel Aviv: A Balanced Look at an Escalating Chapter

The Medicinal Oil Habit: Why Rubbing Away Stress Can Become a Mental Crutch

Why Objects Become ‘Ours’: The Psychology of Possession

Nighttime Rumination And The Decline Of Cognitive Control

Why Rest May Create a Feeling of Unrestfulness ?

China’s Rules on Public Speaking Online: The Psychological Weight of Speaking About Finance and Medicine Without Credentials

National Science Day: The Psychology Behind Scientific Thinking

The Silence Around Sex Education and Politics: Why Schools Still Hesitate

Why February Is Short: The Psychology of Lunar Time

Where Borders Blur and Healing Begins: What a Naga King’s House Teaches Us About Mental Health