Postpartum Depression: The Questions Families Are Afraid To Ask
Everyone celebrates the baby. But who is checking on the mother? Written By Gurneet Kaur Jaitly, Counselling Psychologist The baby arrives, and the house fills with joy. Relatives visit with gifts. Family WhatsApp groups overflow with photographs. Everyone wants to know the baby’s name, weight, feeding schedule, and resemblance. But beneath this celebration, an important question often goes unasked: What is happening to the mother? In many Indian homes, a new mother is surrounded by expectations of happiness, gratitude, and strength. Yet emotionally, she may be navigating exhaustion, sleep deprivation, identity shifts, anxiety, and overwhelming responsibility—often in silence. Postpartum depression does not always appear loudly. Sometimes, it hides behind responsibility. Sometimes, behind smiles. And sometimes, behind the expectation that “this is just part of motherhood.” The Unspoken Exhaustion: Reading Between the Smiles We rarely ask the most important questions: Why is the mother ...