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After the Last Paper: Why Freedom Feels So Confusing

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There’s a very specific kind of silence that hits right after your last board exam. It’s not peaceful. It’s… suspicious. You walk out of the exam hall expecting background music, slow-motion relief, maybe even a dramatic “this is the beginning of your new life” moment. Instead, you get heat, traffic, your parents asking “Paper eppadi?” and your own brain going, “Wait… now what?” For months, your life had a script like wake up, study, revise, panic, repeat. Even your stress had structure. And suddenly, just like that, the script ends. No timetable, no syllabus, no guilt-driven productivity. Just a very unfamiliar thing called free time. At first, it feels amazing. You tell yourself, “I’m going to sleep, watch everything on my list, meet friends, learn a new skill, fix my life.” The post-exam bucket list is longer than the answer sheet you just filled. But within a few days, something strange happens. You wake up late, scroll aimlessly, maybe open Netflix and then close it because nothin...

The Psychology of Curiosity: Why the Human Mind Craves the Unknown

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Curiosity is a fundamental and biologically driven, and intrinsically motivated human urge to bridge the gap between what we know and what we want to know. It acts as a gateway drug to learning by engaging reward circuits in the brain  such as the mesolimbic dopaminergic circuit releases dopamine to enhance memory and information-seeking, acting as a crucial driver for knowledge acquisition.  There is a quiet moment that happens almost without notice. You come across something you don’t fully understand. It could be a sentence, a problem, a person’s behavior, or even a small detail in a video. For a second, your mind pauses. Then a question forms. Not because someone told you to ask—but because your brain cannot leave it alone. That small moment is curiosity. It may look simple, but from a scientific point of view, curiosity is one of the most important forces in the human brain. It is not just a habit or personality trait. It is a built-in system that pushes the brain to lear...

Alzheimer’s, Dementia, and Parkinson’s: Why These Brain Disorders Are Often Confused

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We have all heard of these terms used together before: Alzheimer’s, dementia, and Parkinson’s. We worry about mixing them up when someone dear to us starts forgetting things, moving more slowly, or showing changes in thinking. While these conditions all affect the brain, they actually are very different in how they develop, the parts of the brain they target, and the symptoms they produce. Understanding these distinctions helps us know what is happening and how it can be approached. Dementia Dementia is a broad term for a set of symptoms that affect memory, thinking, and reasoning. Alzheimer’s disease is the most common form of dementia, but there are others like vascular dementia, Lewy body dementia, and frontotemporal dementia. Dementia often starts subtly, with forgetfulness or trouble focusing, and gradually progresses to more severe cognitive difficulties. While it mainly affects memory, it can also impact language, judgment, and emotional control, depending on the type. Alzheimer...

The Mental Chaos of Deciding What to Eat Every Single Day

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“What to eat this fine day, In The Realm hot sun ray, Dal I had for lunch, Rotis are becoming everyday bunch, Cutlets are an snacky eve, But deciding upon dinner would then be daily grief, Breakfasts light, Alas, what should I take in my everyday diet.” A common question that may arise is: what to eat? Sometimes, isn’t there a feeling that you are bored of everything, or you feel you have already eaten that quite some days ago? In the Hindi language, we often hear the saying, “Kya bnaau/bnwaau, samajh mein bhi toh nahi aata,” and that stands true for all of us indeed. To get out of this chaos, some people with a running 9–5 schedule prepare timetables, some prefer to skip meals in this chaos, and you may have your own ways out. The fun part is that this has become a routine. From those tasteless bottle gourds, of course examples may vary and yours may be different to those sugary, tasty cold coffees that cannot be taken daily, we are reverted to having a balanced diet. Further, eating ...

Empty Plate, Active Body: The Science of Healing Through Fasting

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Fasting is simply the act of not eating food for a certain period of time. Many people today think fasting is some kind of new health trend, but actually humans have been doing it for thousands of years. In ancient times fasting was usually connected with religion or spiritual practices. People believed that by controlling their eating they could also control their mind and body. In the modern world though, scientists started looking at fasting from a different angle. They try to understand what really happens inside the human body when we stop eating for some time. What they found is quite interesting, because the body does not just become weak immediately. Instead, it begins adjusting itself and activates some processes that help it survive and sometimes even improve certain functions. The first thing that changes during fasting is how the body gets its energy. Normally our body uses glucose as its main fuel. Glucose mostly comes from carbohydrates that we eat every day like rice, br...

Why Spring Feels Like a Fresh Start: The Psychology of Seasonal Renewal

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As winter ends and spring arrives, the vibe around us seems to shift. The days get much longer, the air grows warmer, and the flora and fauna around begin to bloom. These changes do more than mark the start of a new season. They influence how we think, feel, and even act. Psychologists have studied why spring often feels like a natural opportunity for a fresh start, and a lot of the reasons come from both biology and human culture. Longer and extended hours of the sun are one of the main reasons people feel more awake and motivated in spring. Sunlight increases serotonin, a chemical in the brain that helps improve mood and creates a sense of well-being. So when days get longer, people naturally start to feel a bit more energetic and alert. Longer days also affect melatonin, the hormone that regulates sleep. In winter, shorter days and higher melatonin levels can leave people feeling tired, sluggish, and low on energy. As spring brings in more light, people often feel more ready to get ...

Living with IDIOT Syndrome: The Psychology Behind Trusting Screens Over Specialists

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We live in a time where answers are always a few taps away. A mild headache, a sudden rash, or even a moment of fatigue can instantly send us into a spiral of online searches. What starts as curiosity often turns into anxiety, and before we know it, we are convinced of the worst. This pattern is not just a modern habit, it reflects a deeper psychological phenomenon increasingly referred to as IDIOT Syndrome, where individuals place greater trust in internet-derived medical information than in trained professionals. What is IDIOT Syndrome? Internet Derived Information Obstruction Treatment (IDIOT) Syndrome is a behavioral pattern rooted in health anxiety and cognitive distortion. It occurs when individuals rely excessively on online medical content, often misinterpreting symptoms and assuming severe diagnoses. This leads to harmful outcomes such as delayed professional consultation, self-medication, or even stopping prescribed treatments prematurely. It is closely linked to cyberchondri...

The Quiet Work No One Sees: Holding Hearts, One Conversation at a Time

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Written By Gurneet Kaur Jaitly, Counselling Psychologist RPS International, Gurgaon The Misunderstood Role “She just sits in a room and talks to kids.” I heard someone say that about me recently. I didn’t react at that moment, but later, it stayed with me. Not because it was harsh, but because it made something deeply meaningful feel—almost invisible. Yes, we do sit in a room and talk to kids. But that room? It is never just a room. It is a place where children bring parts of themselves they don’t show anywhere else. And quietly, it is also a place where we, as counselors, feel deeply too. What That Room Really Holds It’s where a child walks in, sits down, and keeps staring at the floor, as if the words are there somewhere but just won’t come out. And then, very quietly—“I don’t know why I feel like crying all the time.” Not every child who walks into that room has the words for what they feel; sometimes, they are just looking for someone who will sit with them in it. It’s where anothe...

Understanding and Managing Emotional Inflation in Today’s Digital Age

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Ever felt why you are feeling emotionally low exactly after watching a reel you just saw? Did you ever feel that the particular content you saw on social media feels more relatable and circulates in your mind in repeat mode?  This is all because of emotional inflation, the recent trend influencing us unknowingly. Let us understand what the concept of emotional inflation is, its role, how it impacts us in day-to-day life, and why it is occurring more recently. The change in the intensity of feelings is observed these days. Maybe the slightest thing triggers frustration or anger in you, and these feelings happen faster than ever before. Many others today feel the same way and report that their emotions feel much more intense than they did years past.  This trend is known as emotional inflation, and it’s not just some random feeling; it’s part of a much larger trend occurring right now. Basically, emotional inflation can be understood as how deep and how long we carry an emotion....

Warrior Minds, Silent Voices: Why Men Often Confront Conflict While Women Choose Quiet Strategies

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Evolutionary psychology also theorises that male violence, aggression, and risk-taking can be explained by drives to gain status, win the favour of females, and pass on their genes. Research has indeed suggested that men (as a group) are more violent than women. Studies show that women prioritize relationships over agendas more than men during times of conflict. In one study, women were more likely to be collaborative, while men were more likely to be avoidant. Females have a greater perception, meaning they observe and dissect information with logic and intellect. Male traits are balanced by female traits, which are considered the highest form of intelligence. In the fields of men and masculinities and other gender studies, a distinction is made between biological sex and gender. Sex refers to biological differences between males and females in terms of anatomy, hormones, and other biological characteristics. Gender, on the other hand, refers to the social and cultural norms regarding...